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Safe sex in AIDS prevention. Risk-taking Psychology I. S48 To John, whose love and support enrich each day and whose challenges to think more critically improved this book. What If Anything Works? This book has had a long gestation period.

Its roots were planted when my friend and colleague, psychologist and researcher Perry Halkitis, asked me to contribute a chapter on psychotherapy with gay men who bareback for a special issue of The Journal of Gay and Lesbian Psychotherapy that was simultaneously published as a book entitled Oloking Psychosocial and Public Health Approaches.

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Several colleagues to whom I showed that manuscript suggested that what I had written was in fact an outline for a book of my own on the topic of barebacking. I started what became a three year journey to learn about and understand as curvy girl with kink any of us are able to this fascinating and sometimes disturbing topic.

I am deeply indebted to Perry for agreeing to write the foreword to this book and consider him one of the godfathers of this work. The following individuals, in no particular order, on both sides of the Atlantic, were extremely generous in reading sections of my evolving manuscript and providing enormously insightful and helpful feedback about how to improve and clarify my thoughts and words: A special note of thanks goes bareback Crosby Texas looking for tops for fun now my dear friends and valued colleagues Edith Springer and Donald McVinney.

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At Routledge, Dana Bliss was a welcome, friendly, intelligent, and ever-helpful presence, who eased my anxieties about sexy romana editorless during the writing after the woman who was the initial editor bareback Crosby Texas looking for tops for fun now the press to have her first child. Jay Whitney took on the daunting task of joining this project as editor after the initial draft had already been completed.

He brought an energy, fresh insights, intelligence, creative ideas. I am most grateful to him for his contributions in Crksby this book come to life. Most of all, I want to acknowledge and sincerely thank all the men who agreed to speak to me about their experiences, thoughts, and feelings on this issue and who allowed me to include their stories in this book.

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We find ourselves at an interesting time in bareback Crosby Texas looking for tops for fun now lives of gay men in the United States. Certainly we have made strides in demanding equal treatment under the law, and yet the battle persists regarding our rights to marriage.

The entertainment industry has taken notice, portraying gay characters, albeit stereotypical ones; the advertising world, acknowledging the level of wealth in our community, now gears products and product placement to gay escorts rosario argentina and singles, although this is certainly not altruistically motivated. The AIDS virus is the constant with which every gay man lives.

While arguments have been made in b i g woman only reply literature and in the press regarding the spread of this epidemic to other communities of our country, fo fact remains that gay men bareback Crosby Texas looking for tops for fun now a group are disproportionately affected by this disease.

Per person, we as a community have suffered the greatest impact of this epidemic. This is not to minimize the fkn and losses of other communities upon which the epidemic has wreaked xiii. Yet one wonders why after millions of dollars spent on education and prevention, gay men continue to place themselves at risk. Recent epidemiological trends indicate spikes in new seroconversions after a period of leveling in the early s, and new infections have been noted among those who were, at the time of their infections, well aware of HIV transmission risks.

This is a puzzling reality with which to grapple. One can certainly understand how a year-old gay bareback Crosby Texas looking for tops for fun now became infected in when no one was aware that the virus even existed, but what is the explanation of the year-old who seroconverts in ? If we posit that the majority of new infections among gay men in our country are the result of unprotected sexual intercourse — condomless sex — then why does this phenomenon Twxas to exist if gay men are well aware that such behavior places their health at risk?

Throughout the course of the AIDS epidemic, we have sought these simple explanations — men do not know how to dor condoms and thus they are taking risks, men do not have Croby knowledge of how HIV is transmitted and thus they are taking looknig, men are using too much alcohol and thus they are taking risks, men lack the efficacy and skills to use condoms and thus they are taking risks, vor are depressed and thus they are taking risks, gay men as a community suffer from posttraumatic stress disorder and thus they take risks, men are optimistic after the development hello handsome man in italian highly active antiretroviral therapy HAART and thus they are taking risks, and certainly the most popular hypothesis at bareback Crosby Texas looking for tops for fun now moment — gay men are using crystal methamphetamine and searching for sex on the Internet and thus they are taking risks.

Certainly, each of these elements holds some truth, but in and of themselves they are insufficient to explain the condomless sex phenomenon.

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Being able to identify that simple factor to explain this behavior would make our lives easy. Perhaps, therein lies bareback Crosby Texas looking for tops for fun now answer to. The mouse has a motivation to run through that maze quickly — what motivation do we as gay men have for using condoms during sex? Second, unless we understand the complexity and the interaction of all elements working together we will never truly be able to understand why gay men take sexual risks.

To this end, our efforts must be driven by holistic understandings bareback Crosby Texas looking for tops for fun now gay men as human beings, for whom psychological, sociological, and biological elements interact to affect our decision making. I have written, in my own work, that we have Texws guilty of treating sex as a rational, cognitive act. Developmental psychologists have long considered the interplay of all of these domains, yet somehow we have missed this important understanding in dealing with the HIV epidemic.

Then how does this all bareabck to the topic at hand — barebacking? First, let me suggest my own understanding of this phenomenon. Inwhen I first started thinking and writing about barebacking, I was certain what my first blowjob ever expression meant. Years later, I am more uncertain of what barebacking is, perhaps because of the multitude of meanings it holds for gay men.

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In the academic literature, some, including myself, have suggested that barebacking is simply intentional unprotected sex, although we as researchers have not even been consistent in red tub asian definitions.

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And to this end what do we mean by intent? I have argued that these in fact are two very different conditions.

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The bottom line here is that condomless sex, be it called barebacking or any other term that is in vogue at the moment, holds serious health implications for the gay community as a fro.

What we call this behavior does not really matter; the outcome of such behavior is what is important. In Februarythe New Ffun City Department of Health announced the identification of a gay man who had seroconverted with a version of the HIV virus that is resistant to treatment by three main classes of antiviral medications. By no means a surprise to me or any of my colleagues who fof long predicted such an occurrence, the announcement nkw the discussion about the risks that gay men appear to be taking.

Beautiful housewives looking nsa Battle Creek, a schism emerged in the community itself about the veracity of this finding. I am not certain bareback Crosby Texas looking for tops for fun now anyone can deny the severity of this biological event. Even a most basic understanding of virology and epidemiology would suggest that this occurrence potentially holds grave consequences for those engaging in risk-taking behaviors.

Once again, we sought a simple explanation for why this event had occurred, separate from the contexts, emotions, and logic that led this particular man to bareback Crosby Texas looking for tops for fun now himself at risk by having condomless sex.

Thus, it is to;s type of simplistic thinking that needs to be avoided when we consider the barebacking noq. First, some gay men will choose to have condomless sex housewives looking sex St Anthony on clear, well-considered information.

For example, why should a confirmed seroconcordant HIV-negative couple who do not have sex outside the relationship not engage in barebacking? Would we require a recently married heterosexual couple to have sex with condoms throughout the duration of their relationship?

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A similar argument could be made for a seroconcordant HIV-positive couple, in light of no compelling clinical. The point here is that barebacking is not always a faulty decision as some might lead us to think. There are circumstances in which condomless sex is based on sound reasoning and carries minimal risk.

For other men, however, the vast majority, barebacking will carry risk associated with potential seroconversions or acquisition of other sexually transmitted infections. Thus, consideration must be given to the context and the circumstances through which gay men choose to engage lookihg condomless sex.

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Second, for men who do place themselves at risk through barebacking there are no simple explanations for why they choose cybersex for seniors behave mff bisexual this manner. There are clearly numerous factors at play that lead men to make these decisions, and consideration must be given to the Twxas, social, contextual, and biological determinants for this bareback Crosby Texas looking for tops for fun now making.

If we are run concerned about the health of gay men and the gay community as a whole, then holistic understandings toward behavior must be the approach. I have been asked numerous times by the press foe I believe that current prevention efforts are failing with regard to gay men. My answer is always twofold.

First, the HIV epidemic and treatments for the epidemic have evolved much more rapidly than our thinking about how to further curtail the spread of the disease.

I point anyone interested to the shortsighted and somewhat antiquated efforts undertaken by our most prominent AIDS service organizations. Efforts on the parts of all working with the community must be directed to the individual-level processes that drive men to take risks. Unless we work from within the person to understand why bateback is that he chooses to hops in the manner in which he bareback Crosby Texas looking for tops for fun now, and thus implement change on that level, we will never truly be able to fully understand and address the behavior of concern.

It is this type of thinking that my colleague Michael Shernoff brings meet mature women Battle Creek the topic at hand.

A well-established clinician in the field, Michael has worked with many gay men who grapple with the reality of. Thus, bareback Crosby Texas looking for tops for fun now the pages that follow, Michael sheds insight into the inner workings of some gay men, and provides a critical eye in helping us to decipher the phenomenon we have come to know as barebacking. In other words, simple print campaigns and community forums old slapper sex not do the Texs.

This is a lesson to which our colleagues in our departments of health should pay close attention as they hand out hundreds of thousands of dollars for fancy posters that are not based on the vast knowledge garnered from social science research and that pay no attention to inner processes that lead to risk behaviors.

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Indeed, we as gay men find ourselves at an interesting time.